Only God's opinion matters,

At all times forgive and learn from the situation. At all times compare yourself to what God requires and not to the standard of men. Jesus should be our only comparison in the ultimate sense. Compared to him we have all utterly failed. Therefore I forgive my neighbour and true forgiveness from the heart will lead to liberation and a desire for their genuine repentance towards God.

Even though their ways are full of malice towards you, fully aware of what they are doing, and thinking that doing thus is an act of vengeance towards you or an act that will consume you, forgive them as Christ forgave his killers on the cross. In the end, the only opinion of you and me that matters is God's opinion. For on the day of judgment, when you are declared guilty by Jesus, it will be of no benefit to you if 10,000 men came forward to testify of your goodness. Their opinion will be as a droplet into the ocean. Only God's opinion matters, so live for him. That's what Jesus did, He lived solely for his Father. 

K.Oni